Yeah, we've talked several days in a row on the phone and she doesnt have internet access at the moment.  Anything I need to pass along?  Let me know, and I'll call her later. 

-mib

I don't think your being childish. I agree with Farrah, they're ex's for a reason. I can see being friends with one, maybe two, but all of them? Somethings not right there. Thanks for your comment. Take care.

Chad

I dont think you are being childish about this I know I would flip the f*** out if baby went out with an ex although he still talks to some of the girls he dated in his past.  All is fair in love and war and maybe you should go to see what it is all about if he asked you to go it is important to him so maybe give in this time just to see what it is all about but tell him  that it will be the first and last.

Maybe he wants to share his happiness with that other person maybe they have reached that friendship point in which they rely on the others point of view on things

but then again it is up to you my friend

good luck

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no your not being childish about it, cause' id probably be like how you feal if my boyfriend started getting into alot of contact with his ex girlfriends.

i know your not exactly going to feal comfortable with DS if theres his ex there to,

and you know what, they are ex's for a reason.. cause most things do happen for a reason.

farrahChelsea.x

LMAO she is nuts she needs to get laid ...hahahhahahah

are you the Welfare Whore???

she just cant let it go and blames you for what hubby did... she is mental

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it is great to hear that things are working out..I hope they continue to work out cuz you desereve happiness!

About CB she should just let it go..lol

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Thanks for your comment. Take care.

Chad

I'm sorry to hear that things aren't going well. I don't know what else to say. Good luck.

Chad

IT is CLEAR!!!! he doesnt deserve you!!!!   you are better off without him.

sorry hun

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Well it sounds good that you guys worked things out ...I think that maybe he is just trying to play it cool and detached so if things dont work out he wont get hurt too much but at the same time it is still a bit weird.

[ladyofthelake]

I didn't read all of the past entries, but, for me I am still friends with my ex-girlfriends, all except one.  But, while our (just past relationship) was good it was based on trust.  Without trust there can be no "love."  If a relationship was good and ended you can go your separate ways and when the hurt and pain subsides you can be friends again.  See I guess I am the freak because I was always really good friends with them before I dated.  For Mich, she knew I broke up with them for a reason and that I was with her. Furthermore, I didn't want that type of relationship with them.  If there is trust issues with each other that is the thing you should focus on, not, the other girls.

I wish you all the luck in the world,

~Matt

OHH man!!!

I am sorry hun, and you are right it doesnt seem to click.

It is complicated I guess, maybe this is a sign that he isnt the one.

tight hugs

My weekend was great except for the whole mdd sh*t. 

That guy sounds so mean. A guy should only have one girlfriend. You should tell him how you feel. Trust me you'll feel a bit better. Even if you don't wanna talk to him or anything. Be brave be strong be you. Take care.

From a friend

When you start a sentence with "I'm not saying that..........." Do you think that maybe you're inviting trouble or turning it around on yourself unintentionally? I don't know the dynamics of your relationship with DS, it's just a thought on my part. Thanks for your comment also. Take care.

Chad

relationships are tough but we need to work on them

I hope that DS makes you super happy

you deserve it

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Your last words in this entry is a good attitude to have. Thanks for the comment.

Chad

You are totally right beautiful lady HIS LOSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I am sure he wont find anyone like you or even better than you, he will find a bitch woman that will give him his own taste of what he did to you

hugs!!

well

I would freak out if Z told me that a friend of his was staying over...specially a woman.  You never know!!!  And if the place is super small and no furniture...yeah right.  I am sorry but you are the cautious gf not the paranoid one.

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You're welcome and thank you. Thanks for the websites too. I'll check them out. Talk to you soon.

Chad

I think anyone would have a problem with it, I know I would if a guy was staying over at a girlfriends house. I don't think you're necessarily being untrusting, it's just there are limits that should not be pushed and lines that should not be crossed as far as things like he wanted to do(having this girl stay with him). Good luck, take care.

Chad

Dusting myself off could take awhile, there's alot of me to dust off.........lol. Thanks for your comment.

Chad

Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I am so happy for you!!!!!!!!!!

He sounds amazing.  I hope that soon you get to spend more time with him.  I perfectly understand that missing him part...between their long hours and other things its like there is never time.

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much love

I'm glad your day turned out the way it did. It's a good feeling isn't it. Is that Reading as in Reading Pa? If so, you're not too far from me. I live in North Wales. Take care and congratulations.

Chad

applauds that entry made my day brighter cuz lately its all been a bunch of depressing sh*t on here lol

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chris

YOU ARE SPECIAL!!! never doubt that.  yay he sounds sooo amazing!!  I am so happy for you.  he clearly knows that he has found someone he has to keep in his life.

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wow idk what to say ...something spooked him real bad ...my guess is that it has nothing to do with you...maybe his kids like you too much and have been asking about you in their future...that is my guess and he is now afraid but it works both ways if he doesnt want u around while his kids are with him then you go ahead and do the same.  Those are his insecurities and he has to get over them in order for all to work out

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Your kids are super cute!!

cute pics

you look amazing and I loveeee your hair

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Funny picture the last one with all the smiles. The little girl's smile looks like my grandma's (teeth :))

And your cousin seems hot...I am a sucker for white skins and redheads, but trust me, you don't want a guy like me anywhere near her...but do give her my number when she turns 25 (she is a bit young for my liking). :)

All the best!

Mark.

sounds like DS is a great guy!

the ex is an a**h***

I hope your kids get well soon

good luck

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sorry hun he seems a bit psycho

he needs a good anger management session

take care

I don't know why she would stall, she's the one who wants to be divorced from the ogre I've become.......lol

Chad

I have gotten stuff from the court system out there, mostly preliminary stuff. Thanks for the advice.

Chad

whoa that's insane!

I think your brother needs help, no one should act like that.

<3

I know it's only my opinion and easier said than done but your brother needs to be banned from all family occasions until he learns to act like a decent human being. Take care.

Chad

I understand. It would just be hard for me because I can't keep a secret and eventually one person would find out about the other then I'd be in deep sh*t. This is why I never got involved with more than one person at a time. I think I'll shut up now, I don't want to piss you off. I've pissed off enough people tonight. Take care.

Chad

Being involved with two people at the same time would confuse the hell out of me, plus I can't keep my own secrets to save my life.......lol. Good luck to you, I hope everything works out for you. Take care.

Chad

what is the deal with men and their sex filled ims ...

it seems that z isnt the only one that does that I was starting to think that he was getting weird on me. 

It is funny how AB will beat around the bush and finally say it

AB: i want to have sex with you again

Have fun on your next date and make AB wait

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Congrats on your bedroom set. I'm glad you had a good date. Whether or not you kiss him depends entirely on how you feel and what signals he's giving off.

Thank you for your comment, it's going to take alot to get over her and once I do, it will take even more to speak to her without  feeling pain. Take care.

Chad

I am not sure it is a good idea but if things feel right why not.  Have fun and good luck

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well he might be cute but he is a frekking loser!!!!!!

if a guy sucks in the sack then you are better off without him!!!!

what an a**h***

tight hugs

Punching her in the face would be wrong, no matter what she did, short of threatening someone I care about. Thank you for the compliment about keeping my cool

Chad

[GhostWalker]

It sounds like you did the right thing. Forget about him and move on to someone worth your time and attention.

Chad

lets beat him up

arrgghhh what is wrong with men, if he was going to say goodbye at leats he could have given you something good. 

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The application has been completed and is ready to be mailed tomorrow. Thanks for the comment. Talk to you soon.

Chad

Dare,

 Like your parents, it's not my intention to force my beliefs on anyone either. it's just a entry topic that came to me all of a sudden. I hope I don't alienate people as you all have become good friends to me and I'd like to keep it that way. Talk to you later.

Chad

I think it would be a good thing to write him off, it doesn't sound like he's interested in anything more than sex. Congrats on the new furniture, I hope you enjoy it. Lol, you should have cooked the bird for dinner.........just kidding.

Chad

I'd send it even though it hit a nerve with me. I got mentally sick and lost touch with my kids. My oldest is still considering whether or not to forgive me but she's talking to me now at least. Take care.

Chad

dating a younger guy is fun but careful because men mature much slower than us.  However sweets have massive fun

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gorgeous set!!!

I hope things work out with AB the other two seem not worth your time

take care

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c.

well, about the ex he has won a few points but he needs to show his cards for real...nice that you guys had a nice dinner without counting the Outback fiasco.

About AB...do not text him or anything if hes interested he can go the extra mile,

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Wow I think I missed somethimng cuz I didnt know the ex was near you.  Dont cave in but do go to dinner  at least  he is  buying.  Do not close the doors on AB he seems greaty so far.  Have  fun and take care

hugs

c.

I am glad that you had a nice time.  It was definetly meant to happen cuz of your parents having the kids over!! YAy.  The ex is catching up to the fact that he probably lost you so he is trying to be friends but what he really wants is to stay in touch with you to throw you the bait to see if you catch it and have you back.  Good luck with AB...about VC if he doesnt answer you ... well you are absolutely right his lost.

take care

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I know what you mean.  I was inmerse in my own self for 5 years , no dating no nothing.  You need a bit more time by yourself.  First you need to let go a bit more of the pain of the ex.  Then focus a bit on yourself and then date.  I tried the approach that a screw drives another screw out and it doesnt work well in the end, so replacing the ex with another guy right away isnt good.  Try to go out a bit more  if you can  try getting a babysitter .  I hope you find the answers that you are looking for

take care

hugs

connie

your children look adorable!

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some men think that once they divorce the wife they divorce the kids as well

what a jerk

take care

hugs

connie

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tight hugs

connie

he will realize his mistake and his inmaturity...I know you are hurting hun but it isnt your fault

stay strong  you are amazing

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You go girl!!!

ypu have given him enough time and you deserve he making a commitment

I hope that he realizes asap what he is losing

take care

tons of hugs

connie

I am so sorry hun .  I hope that you can get over this  in a short time.  this reminded me of my older sis.  She waited for her fiance to go thru dental school and then get his masters, it was about  8 years also and whne he finished he ditched her because she thought it had been enough waiting and it was time for  the next step. They were in two different countries too.  Funny thing about my sister was that 2 days later he bumped into this gorgeous  guy on the street  and then 3 months later they got married.  My brother in law isnt just gorgeous he is the man with the biggest heart I have ever met!  I am sure that you will find someone that deserves you.  He needs to mature a bit more.  I can understand taht being there is tough  on him as well but what more does he want you have been with him for 8 years.  You deserve better than that.   I hope he realises  what he lost.

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those are two well written straight to the point emails.  You deserve the truth  from bf.  I hope he thinks better about things

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I am sorry that your bf is acting like that, in the end it will be his loss.  he needs to figure out what he wants

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I hope that the thing with your billing gets settled

[ladyofthelake]

Glad you got a phone call from your bf. Wont your ex be in for a real suprise when he sees its all for real now!

Ashley

I want a treadmill. My mom has one and I used it while I was at her house for the holidays. I am so out of shape. I didnt do so good on it.

Ashley

I am glad that your BF seemed to be acting better! I just hope it gets alot better once he gets back.

Ashley

men are difficult most of the time

happy thanksgiving

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